Many families choose different ways to personalize their loved one’s funeral services, and more and more people are also adding personal touches to the graveside service. This is a nice way to honor your loved ones and give them a final service that is both touching as well as unique. If you would like to add something extra to your loved one’s graveside services, directors of funeral homes in Tigard, OR have these ideas.
The act of releasing doves can be seen in several different events such as weddings and funerals. Holding a dove released at your loved one’s graveside can provide a beautiful visual representation of their spirit being carried off into heaven.
To find a company to help with your dove release, simply search online and you will be able to find several options. Each company’s policies and prices are different so check with the specific provider for all of the details you need to know.
Having guests participate in the graveside service is not only a wonderful way to honor your loved one, but it provides guests a way to feel more included and involved, which they will appreciate. Some ways you can do this are to have each guest place a flower on top of the casket. Another way that is common in certain religions is to have each guest shovel a small about of dirt over the casket one at a time.
Many times guests will receive a small keepsake from a funeral. These funeral favors can be anything from a prayer card to a small candle. This idea can be carried over to the graveside service as well.
If you can make this keepsake personal to your loved one, it can be an even more meaningful token. For example, if your loved one was an avid baker, you could hand out cookie cutters with a favorite recipe attached. Maybe your loved one was passionate about gardening. If so, you could hand out seed packets or small trees to be planted. You can choose to fund your pre-arranged plans now, and the costs will be locked in for the future, even if prices for various services and products increase.
If there are many children in the family, you could consider having them all recite a poem or sing a song at the graveside service.
It is very important that with this option you consider the ages as well as the maturity levels of the children to determine if it is appropriate if they join in or not.
Making your loved one’s graveside service personal and unique is a wonderful way to have it stand out and give your loved ones the thoughtful service they deserve.
If you would like more information about how to personalize your loved one’s funeral, graveside service, or any other services provided by funeral homes in Tigard, OR, please feel free to reach out to us anytime. Our directors and staff are always here to help answer your questions, address your concerns, and provide any information and resources you may need. Don’t wait. Call or come by today.